How… how on earth do you discover that you have an ability like this. Do you wake up one day and say “I wanna log-roll a table upside-down” and dedicate your life to achieving that goal? Are you lounging around the house and someone tosses an ottoman at you and you roll a 20 on your Dex check? How?
it worries me so much that there’s been this (mostly unintentional) culture built up around coming out, to where young lgbt kids are putting themselves in danger at school and at home because they don’t want to “live a lie.” i just want to say, i came out when i was 15 and it created a lot of difficulties in my life that i could have avoided by waiting until i was older. it isolated me socially, it exposed me to homophobia from my parents, my family, my teachers, and my classmates at the most important developmental stages of my own confidence and sense of self… closeted people are not living a lie. closeted people are surviving. don’t let anyone pressure you to come out before you’re ready. don’t put yourself at risk when you don’t have to.
Seriously!
Coming out is not mandatory. Live your life how you want to.
☆Knight star☆ 